The community of Park Ridge, Illinois, is mourning the heartbreaking loss of Mike Tobias, a devoted husband, father, son, brother, cousin, and friend whose sudden passing has left a deep void in the lives of all who knew him. Remembered for his warmth, humor, and unwavering dedication to his family and community, Mike’s life was one of love, connection, and countless cherished memories.
A Life Filled With Connection
For those who grew up alongside Mike, his life was woven with friendships that spanned decades. A cousin and lifelong friend shared how their journeys were intertwined from the very beginning.
“Mike and I were born just months apart. We were in the same class and schools in Defiance from K-12, always with lockers next to each other. We earned sacraments together, graduated together, and I even followed him to Wright State for college. Our friend group at WSU had so much fun at his apartment, Tuty’s, W.O. Wright’s, May Daze, spring break in Daytona…there’s really just so many great memories that he was a part of. Without Mike, I wouldn’t have Bill, who was one of his roommates. Letting Mike know we reconnected in 2014 was the best surprise—and he was happy!”
These words reflect what many felt about Mike: that he was not only family, but also a true and loyal friend whose presence enriched every chapter of life.
A Devoted Family Man
Mike built a beautiful life with his wife, Sue, and their children Cammie, Cole, and Quinn. Friends and neighbors describe him as a wonderful father who poured his energy into his family and his community. Whether coaching his children’s teams, supporting school events, or simply being present for every milestone, Mike was known for his steadfast love and guidance.
One neighbor wrote: “Park Ridge lost an amazing man today. It’s heartbreaking and impossible to understand. Mike and Sue created a beautiful family, made a huge mark on our small town, and will be sorely missed. He was a wonderful father, friend, coach, neighbor, and husband. RIP Mike Tobias. May the community watch over and protect Sue, Cammie, Cole, and Quinn.”
Impact on His Community
Mike’s influence extended beyond his family into the broader Park Ridge community. Known as a kind neighbor, supportive friend, and active presence in local activities, he embodied what it meant to be part of a community—offering encouragement, laughter, and a helping hand whenever it was needed.
His warmth left an impression on all who crossed paths with him. Whether through his involvement in his children’s activities, friendships formed through school and sports, or simply as a friendly face in town, Mike’s legacy of kindness will endure.
A Legacy of Love and Memories
Those who knew Mike best remember his ability to bring people together, to share in both laughter and challenges, and to create memories that will be treasured forever. His recent phone calls and messages with loved ones now serve as reminders of the deep connections he valued and maintained throughout his life.
Though his time on earth was cut far too short, Mike’s legacy lives on through his wife, children, extended family, and the countless friends and neighbors who were touched by his generosity and love.
Holding His Memory Close
As the Tobias family and the Park Ridge community mourn this unimaginable loss, they are comforted by the love, prayers, and support being shared from near and far.
Mike Tobias will be remembered not for the tragedy of his passing, but for the life he lived: a life full of family, friendship, laughter, and love. His memory will forever be a guiding light for all who were blessed to know him.
Rest in peace, Mike Tobias. Your spirit and legacy will live on in the hearts of many.
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